Polished Manners

The Official Etiquette Rules for the Vintage A...

The Official Etiquette Rules for the Vintage Advice Group (Photo: Ann Douglas)

Don’t be fooled by nice manners. What looks like politeness can be pretense used to sugarcoat aggressive, manipulative, or false communication. Look at the content; not merely the cover. In other words; pay attention to what the person is saying, and don’t be fooled by who he is or how he is saying it.

See also It’s so easy to be fooled

1 thought on “Polished Manners

  1. So true. when you deal with a narcissist, like my husband and I have to deal with in his ex-wife, you have to be very, very clear about what messages are being sent and received. narcissists are excellent confusion, misdirection, and basically- chaos!

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