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| Stonewalling is a tactic commonly used by bullies wanting to control, humiliate, and frustrate a target who attempts to resolve a conflict through reasonable discussion or negotiation. Accusations of mental deficiency, harassment, and even bullying, are other typical methods of asserting dominance, intimidating the target, and discouraging objections to the abuse from both victim and bystanders. To the insightful observer, these behaviors reveal the bully’s true motivations. |
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The serial Church bully…..sounds a lot like this.
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Psychopath Resistance 
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Wow — this provokes memories of ministers and Christian laypersons who were chocked full of the Holy Ghost. I mean, just stuffed with the Spirit, man. (It also sounds many accounts of Pastor Mark Driscoll.)
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They have methods of abusing with impunity. What if everyone else recognized their tactics? A different world!
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Very true! Thank you for your efforts to spread the word.
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I have been targeted by these monsters my entire life. I was born into a very large family of them and then I married into a nest of them. My sister is a full-bore phychopath who terrorized me my entire childhood. She got three of my sibling to join her when I was twelve and the four of them terrorized me 24/7 for my entire teenage years. My parents did absolutely nothing and sometimes joined them. I escaped by marrying at age nineteen to a full-bore psychopath. I used to ask him things like “did my sister hire you to marry me to keep in going or “when I married you I jumped out of the frying pan and into the fire.” The MO was identical – it was astounding. Then one day I had the word psychopath pop into my head. I had spent over twenty-five years wondering what was wrong that I could not get through to this person. I thought about what a psychopath meant. They had two personalities and they had no conscious. I sat down to the computer and typed in the word…….and I started to read. Before long I was crying and then just sobbing realizing what I had done. The people who read the articles and books I eventualy read described my parents, sister, brother, husband, in-laws. fast forward seven years ago. my son came home with a new girlfriend eight years his senior. Three weeks later he shocked us by telling us he was going to Italy with this person he had only known three weeks. He them came home and really blew us away telling us they were engaged and were going to be married in about ten weeks. We were quite upset but there was nothing we could do. I knew right away that this person was bad news. How right I was. Enter the next psychopath in my life. She then became the mother of my grandchildren. She treated my entire family like dirt. She would not speak to my other sons’ girlfriends or later wife. She clearly hates women. It has finally blown up at Christmas as was there myself with only my son and her and she blew up like a lunatic and blamed me. I now cannot see my grandchildren. My son joins her in blaming me for this. He will not listen to anyone and he now even joins her. He lost his family to this person. He is now alone with her and they are abusive to my grandsons. I just cannot take anymore of this life. My other daughter in law who is also very abused by this witch wants me to keep going but she does not understand it is no longer just about my lost grandbabies. I have absolutely no future. I will be alone as it is a guarantee that if I ever allow another person in my life in any role they will be a psychopath. I do nothing. I no longer exercise. I do no work. I cry every day but have to hide it so as not to be a burden to my family. I left my husband to get a new start that I was very excited about and now the universe has shown me that I am not allowed a life of peace. I am 54 and I wish I were dead. psychopaths have literally destroyed my entire life and have now finally destroyed me.
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Thank you for sharing your story, as I have had simular situations in mine.
BUT…YOU MUST get away from all abusive people and not allow them in!!
You CAN CHANGE IT, GET HELP, And fix your life but first you must divorce them all replace them with positive,loving and kind folks.
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Is there any way to find a counselor who believes in normal, traditional family structure, etc.? Psychologists believe ALL forms of sexual expression must be celebrated. This presents a danger to people who are harmed by incest during childhood.
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Have you dealt with adult bullies? I have dealt with one and this post is exactly SPOT ON!!
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ok so the main offender in my situation is clearly a sociopath. How do I expose him. He is so good that nobody except close friends will even look at the evidence. I am not being heard. The violations against me were in violation of Federal law. There was an illegal act against me at least once a month, I am trying to write a brief. I have no skills to take on this task. I cannot get an attorney to so much as respond. Any suggestions?
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