Being Victimized

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From The Narcissism Book of Quotes:

“One of the very difficult things to deal with after being the victim of a Narcissist is that most people will not want to believe what happened to you, even if they saw it with their own eyes!”

Sociopathic abuse can be most insidious. The abuser takes precautions so that there are no witnesses or hard evidence. He’ll tell others that he is being victimized and that the real victim’s reactions to his abuse are unprovoked and malicious or “irrational.” Destroying his target while attracting the attention he craves is a game to the sociopath; one he enjoys and plays with confidence. A “normal” person is easy prey to a skilled and experienced manipulator lacking a moral conscience.

“[They] count on our shame to keep their secrets. They know that exposing them means exposing our own failings. That’s what makes them so powerful. They manipulate us into these situations then sit back and watch us squirm between protecting ourselves or blowing the whistle.”

The seasoned abuser is also highly selective. He will target people who are self-conscious and reluctant to draw attention to themselves. Like predators in the animal world who concentrate their efforts on prey that is separate from the herd, he is likely to choose someone who is a loner or with weak social connections; someone who is clearly vulnerable.


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2 thoughts on “Being Victimized

  1. What happens when Sovereign Citizens target the wrong person: the unintended consequences of forcing ‘selection’ to an alternate, near-future timeline (from a variety of possible futures) with dire and lethal consequences for the social zombies. They have no one to blame but themselves.

    The harder they push, the worse the outcome. The more toxic their actions, the more of them and their equally deficit and de-volved progeny, that will die-out.

    I can only watch, like a neutral, disinterested observer, as the zombie lemmings march unheedingly towards the inevitable cliff, when they will be unable to survive because they have no comprehension of what it is like not to have a social net: they lack the twin benefits of advanced risk control and social bonding: dopamine and oxytocin. These lowlifes, who hate authority and envy those who have education and aspire to more than just passing the time until death, these malcontents have no idea of the Great Leveler, that lies just around the corner.

    The zombies who do not believe in nature, with their damaged social couth and lack of empathy, are selected against by naturally evolved processes that protect the herd when the real predators of the Built Environment emerge to prey on the imcomplete, the bereft..

    Humans have evolved for more than 2 million years, through the most difficult of circumstances, by working together as clans by being altruists. It’s in our genes.

    There is a medical term for these mal-fits: ODD.

    Oppositional Defiant Disorder.

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