Everything happens for a reason…

nothing you can say or do will make him change

Don’t beat yourself up trying to figure out what you did wrong or what you should have done differently. Abusers target good people. Sometimes, it’s really that simple.

Everything happens for a reason

See also:
Empaths are Targets
The Sociopath-Empath-Apath Triad
The Relationship Between Empaths and Narcissists

5 thoughts on “Everything happens for a reason…

  1. That there may be nothing you can do or say to make a psychopath change may be true, but in reality its a brutal truth to accept.


      • Couldn’t agree with more. I’ve personally been through it four times! You’d think I would have learned by now. That said, ‘time to detection’ has decreased with each each new iteration, though its taken a huge toll. In order of importance: family, friends, career, money, all gone. Empath’s beware! Apath’s don’t take part! And psychopaths, please please please find some way to entertain yourselves that avoids destroying others’ lives.


      • Destroying lives is a fun game to psychopaths and they will never give it up—no matter how much you beg. What we can achieve, is to become more alert and savvy to their devious tactics to improve our own chances of evading victimization and to warn others. When we share our experiences and spread information about psychopathy, we become part of a movement that is raising public awareness and making it increasingly difficult for evil-doers to hide in plain sight.

        You have been duped four times. Arm yourself with knowledge so it won’t happen again!


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