Narcissistic Personality Disorder

NarcChecklistA narcissist has many of these traits.


Modern permissiveness and a culture of entitlement allow
disturbed people to reach adulthood without proper socialization.


Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)

It is believed that narcissism is an attitude which is present in every individual and is actually important to be confident individuals. However, when this feeling of self worth exceeds certain limits, where one cannot see anyone other than oneself, one is said to have narcissistic personality disorder. Anger is a natural reaction that comes to humans when exposed to a provocative situation. Such anger arises from a rational cause and dies down when one is able to express it.

Narcissistic rage is different from the anger that people usually feel. People who have narcissistic personality disorder need narcissistic supply which includes constant adulation, attention, compliments and subservience. They consider themselves to be perfectionists and want people to fear and respect them, whether they do or do not have any accomplishments of their own. As narcissistic people are dependent on other people to boost their self-esteem, any challenge, negative remark or disagreement from other people can be considered as criticism, rejection and mockery. They take it as a personal assault and lash out at the person who provoked them. This can cause physical as well as psychological harm to the other person. Read more on narcissistic behavior.



Narcissistic Rage


Narcissists never admit responsibility and will always blame their targets.

The term narcissistic rage was introduced by Heinz Kohut in his book The Analysis of the Self: A Systematic Approach to the Psychoanalytic Treatment of Narcissistic Personality Disorders.
As narcissists believe that they are perfect individuals who know everything and who can never be wrong, the thought that somebody is challenging their views or behavior can cause rage in them. This rage can be expressed in two ways. The most obvious way is explosive behavior where the person will lash out at the other person, both verbally as well as physically. Sometimes, too much rage can give rise to murderous thoughts in the narcissistic individuals. The other way of expressing their rage is the passive aggressive behavior where the person will not harm the person physically or mentally, but will punish them by giving silent treatment. However, the rage is not just targeted towards the person who provoked them, but also towards other innocent people.


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66 thoughts on “Narcissistic Personality Disorder

  1. I am married to a narassist dentist. He went into a rage last night and started throwing things. I called 911. He left and slept in his office. He is like a leach. Never pays for anything. I buy everything . Never has even once put gas in my car. The house I keep up. Have spent money to repair and replace everything, He spends money
    But borrows from the bank or puts on a credit card, I think he is sadistic because he had 4 of my good teeth pulled. He has turned my daughter against me. We have been married 26 years. I guess I must be the most naive person in the world.

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    • Dearest Emotional Addict…. you are addicted to him no differently than a drug addict to their choice of drug. It is been proven that literally in your brain you suffer the exact same addiction (chemical alterations) and therefore the thought of leaving is so fearful to you. It is withdrawal! But just like a drug addict there is hope and you’re severely damaged emotional and mental state can be repaired. It will take a great deal of determination and stamina on your part to gi cold turkey! But there is NO OTHER WAY. Do your research about the Narcissist Personality Disorder (NPD) and how to recover from that abuse. There is hope. After 20yrs of marriage…..I have done it! And you can too.

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    • You aren’t naive. You have been charmed, used and abused. (Me too). You need educate yourself on narcissism, narcissistic abuse (you will see it all the time!) and have no contact with him. Be really careful who you talk to. He will play the victim to your family & friends. He will do EVERYTHING to look the victim. He’ll cry, apologise, do anything & everything to get in contact with you, do anything & everything to get back at you. He’ll use the child to hurt you!
      He doesn’t love people. He controls them. He’ll move on to another victim very quickly! And all the stuff he did on you. He’ll do on her!
      Good luck xxxx

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  2. I am going through narcissistic abuse from my husband.He treat me with contempt.I have gone through both physical and emotional abuse.I want to divorce him but we have son.Please help me is there way to over come

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  3. Narcissism is lack of empathy [feeling]. Sociopathy is lack of compassion [thinking]. This article is simplistic and fails to make the appropriate distinctions. Best to read the nine factors set forth in the DSM-IV, and medical journal material. See e.g.,
    Since a narcissist is an insecure and weak person, they tend to back away from overt physical violence. A violent psychopath is both antisocial and narcissistic.


  4. I think I have every sign of this disorder. Am I permanently damaged or is there treatment ?
    Once thought to have BPD , but after reading on this
    I believe I’ve been misdiagnosed.

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    • Yes there is help. You need to become aware of these toxic behaviors and curb them.People can say they want to change but their actions tell the truth.


  5. I’ve been in a narrsitic marriage for 40 years how to get away from him and move on I have had its always my fault about everything I say anything and I’m being sarcastic and am trying to break away and stay away

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  6. I have with my partner for 3 years n the last one & half years he have change since I founf out he been cheating behind my back his true colour have be found. Out by me..and since then he have been very on & off been nice to me ..but not the way if should be ..when ever he drink to much he is very rude to me ..almost like he saying ” I dont need you no more ” thou we sleep togather he never been intmate for a year now ..he tell me lies about what he do at work ..As when he mentioned different story when he tell me when I asked him about it ..I get diffrence answer .. he always say I this I did this .. and when I asked him about his family or life he change his subjects always n then he get very angry with me for asking ..I dont know how to take him any more ..he rejected me always now .. I feel very unhappy n lost ..what should I do ..

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    • If your best friend presented this problem to you what advice would you give her/ That is what you should do…like yesterday! Now get to it because there is someone in your future that will treat you better than this.


  7. Well,….If speaking my mind having everyone bash me when technically none of you know me but sure have to find someone to blame stuff on,…. so it’s usually me. I haven’t been the one setting up an admin g account so that I can see what,who, and anything else someone is doing. Honestly I could careless that y’all think you’re accomplishing bringing me down but guess what I am going to let proper authorities handle things that are not being done legal. I don’t have any business for my account. I really wanted to see if Greg and I could have a typical BDSM relationship but I don’t think it will be happening. THANKS¡!! BUT I AM OK! I BELIEVE IN KARMA. Hope you enjoyed getting a laugh at my expense but you guys think I’ve never met him¿?? Well sorry but we had! He did live in SC for a while. Thanks for allowing my family to see my obituary that’s awesome


  8. My ex, i fell in love with a man i thought was a God fearing man..needless to say…he’s a narcissistic person.. everything he did a living nightmare of a man. Who wants control & plays the victim. Hes handsome & thrives on ppl bending backwards for ppl to worship him, praise him. He throws fits. I forgave him. God healed me from this broken heart. Im in control of me.

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