What our gut tells us a manipulator is like, challenges everything we’ve been taught to believe about human nature. We’ve been inundated with a psychology that has us seeing everybody, at least to some degree, as afraid, insecure or “hung-up.” So, while our gut tells us we’re dealing with a ruthless conniver, our head tells us they must be really frightened or wounded “underneath.” What’s more, most of us generally hate to think of ourselves as callous and insensitive people. We hesitate to make harsh or seemingly negative judgments about others. We want to give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they don’t really harbor the malevolent intentions we suspect. We’re more apt to doubt and blame ourselves for daring to believe what our gut tells us about our manipulator’s character.
- Beyond Insanity – Political Ponerology – Macrosocial Evil (powersthatbeat.wordpress.com)
- The Psychopath’s Poison Containers (phoenixsphere.com)
- Playing Games in Prison May Reveal Roots of Psychopathy (prweb.com)
- We are not the same. (psychopathresistance.wordpress.com)